I wrote this a couple of years ago (note the “no car debt” I made mention of). I must have needed a reminder of why things were so good in my life. I tend to need them more and more and I’m a little disgusted with myself every time I do this because when I’m done I realize there is no reason, whatsoever, why I should be feeling down or less than or low.
When it gets right down to it – most of this doesn’t matter. It’s amazing and we are so blessed and so so so thankful … but if it all went away, we’d still have one another.
And that is enough.
- We make enough money to live very well, comfortable lives
- Our house is not broken
- My stove works
- Our bathrooms are newly tiled and beautiful
- Our lawn is taken care of
- I get to stay home with our kids and be a silly kid all over again
- My clothes fit, some are too loose
- My husband loves me
- My husband thinks I’m hot
- My husbands opinion is the most important to me, and he thinks highly of me, which is cause to believe it and think highly of myself, all on my own.
- My kids are healthy
- No broken bones or life threatening injuries
- My kids sleep through the night, every night
- My kids love me, laugh with me and smile at me
- Jessica loves to be read to
- Oliver loves to cuddle
- Jessica loves and thrives on my attention
- Oliver loves and thrives on my attention
- I know how to cook and have a pantry FULL of food, healthy food, to prepare for my family
- We have a full pantry
- We have 2 cars that run, we have no car debt
- Our house is too big for us
- The only debt on our home is the mortgage we got when we bought the home 5 years ago
- We have an amazing yard and neighborhood
- We’re close to our families, in distance and mostly in relationship
- We have a list of babysitters we trust and who help us on a regular basis
- We can afford regular babysitters
- We live beneath our means (most of the time)
- We can afford to eat a very healthy diet, full of fresh fruits and veggies.
- My closet is full, my drawers are full.
- I have enough of everything.
- We’re not cold when it’s Winter out and we’re never hot when it’s Summer.
- Our friends are all around and we see them often enough to feel lucky to have them in our lives.
- We didn’t have trouble having children.
- We have a wonderful intimacy in our relationship.
- I married the man who will forever take care of me and love me no matter what.
- Our burdens are light.
- Aaron has a successful business
- Aaron has the mind of a genius (Go baby!)
- I’m employable if the need ever arises
- My house is stocked with enough things and stuff that our storage is full.
- We have toys and games, books and movies for our kids and for entertaining.